for those of you who have followed this blog – you’ll know that my DH is dealing with complete kidney failure – the struggles with insurance led us to homelessness back in May of 2019. For the past year and change – we have been struggling with agencies, hospitals, medication and finances to ‘make something work’ to at least keep a roof over our heads and access to food and medicine.
Update (1 August, 2020) Repeated tweets and pleas for help have the room secure for a few more days – but left us with NO Money (<$3) to eat… anything and everything helps — to to my PayPal email email@example.com (use friends and family to avoid extra charges) We also can use gift cards for Door Dash (they deliver) or e-gift cards for Walmart- all to the same email as above.
Update! (26 July, 2020)
SO – after hours of Back and Forth as we tried to get confirmation of an INCORRECTLY quoted rate (with said ‘quoter’ then lying AND doubling down on the lie) until issue was straightened out. Let this be a lesson to all: you tell Anthony something – he’s going to tell me. Period. No perseveration, no lying. You missed that in your ‘rush’ to be right.
At any rate – we’ve got the room secured through the end of the month – and now we’re trying to pull together enough for a couple of meals and some water – everything else is settled and sorted…. we just have nothing for food.
IF you can help – the PayPal is firstname.lastname@example.org and Facebook Payments work through messenger – EVERYTHING Helps – and if you go to my profile on FB – and click on the “chat link” you’ll see the option to ‘send payment’ at the bottom screen – right after the emoji add. Use send money to friends – and fees are eliminated for us. Everything helps – shares, good wishes, etc.…..
22 July, 2020
It’s been a few days of struggling and stress – well, a year’s plus worth with a few days here and there that were pure ‘escape’. Because escape is necessary especially with everything going on.
But we’ve hit that peculiar point where, without help, we’re going to be out in the weather, with the first end in sight in about 2 weeks – and then the whole ‘rigamarole’ starts again. As you know – last week we were told that our rent for the room was increasing by $35. At first glance, that’s not much – until you try to make it fit into a budget that has LITERALLY – every penny accounted for and allotted to ‘necessities’ – shelter, medicine, food and water. That additional $140 a month (in a 4 week month) means that we have nothing for 2 weeks for food – we can’t short his medicine or water – and we both need that to survive.
We have no hope of obtaining any further services until AFTER his appointment at the end of NEXT month with the VA – and we’ve already been informed that help from that sector could take up to 12 weeks –but expect nothing before 4 weeks after the paperwork is complete. If it were JUST us doing the paperwork – it would already be completed and waiting – but it’s not up to us to get it done.
Being at the mercy of someone else – to file paperwork, to get things done with some semblance of urgency –while we get to wait and hope is possibly the most difficult and frustrating. For help that he is ENTITLED to and we should get. We’ve been turned away from every agency – foodbanks require you arrive in a car and wait for them to deliver items to you after a wait (that is averaging – 2 hours). We don’t have a car. We can’t wait about in a cab, or a ride share – and afford it. Not having children under 17, not being drug or alcohol dependent, etc., etc….. we’re ineligible.
And still – we are $200 short to make rent and keep the room – the one thing that makes most of this situation bearable – we work around other bits. But PLEASE – we need the help – the heat that is gripping the east coast is also hitting here – 90 degree (average) with humidity, pop-up thunderstorms and no shelter isn’t a fit place for anyone –let alone a veteran with kidney failure.
IF you can help – the PayPal is email@example.com and Facebook payments work through messenger. Every bit helps – $200 by noon tomorrow and we’ve got the room and should (hopefully) be able to squeak through. Shares help – everything does. Thank you